Motivation for Discipleship is Always Love

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Radical discipleship is not possible without love, which is why it’s so important to invest quality, one-on-one time with God every day. Humbling myself to apologize to the mother of my son’s bullies was not easy for me, and there’s nothing in my natural self that was inclined to do it. I chose to say, “Yes, Lord” because I loved God more than I hated the thought of having that conversation. I don’t know if God will use that conversation to change the mother’s life, but my obedience certainly changed mine.

Each time we say “Yes, Lord” to something we REALLY don’t want to do, we deepen our level of intimacy with God. We get the opportunity to experience Him in ways that most other people do not. God rewards those who earnestly seek Him, and the momentarily pain of obedience is more than compensated for in the long run. Joyce Meyer words it this way: obedience first causes pain to the flesh before it results in pleasure to the spirit.

Radical discipleship is what Jesus called us to. All of his disciples were radical in how they lived their lives and how they interacted with others. Their priorities were not the same as the World’s. They weren’t concerned about saving up for retirement and making sure their kids got into the right college. Their focus was on Kingdom purposes, doing the will of God and sharing their faith with anyone who would listen. They loved God more than their own lives, and they gave up their right to live as they pleased to become slaves of Christ. That’s the same level of radical discipleship that God calls us to as well.

Are you a disciple of Christ? Or are you just going through the motions to avoid going to hell when you die? Do you love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength? Or is going to church simply an activity you do on Sundays that you check off your to-do list each week? God isn’t looking for pew warmers – he’s looking for people who will radically follow Him, loving Him more than they love their own lives. Is that you?

In March 2013, I became a radical disciple of Christ, and my life has been completely transformed. Anyone who knew me before then will testify that this is the case for me. I have made many sacrifices, but I have gained so much more in return. God IS the gift. Chase Him! Cling to Him! He is worth it!

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace holding up a sign that says, “Love You.” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

 

Radical Obedience of Christian Discipleship

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Being a disciple of Christ requires radical obedience. Let me give you an example from my own life…

When my son was a freshman in high school, he was bullied by two brothers. Things got ugly, first with the boys and then with the parents and the school. While I did pray for God’s wisdom and discernment as well as for the bullies and their family, I did not handle the situation in a Christlike manner. I even threatened to sue the school if the situation was not resolved to my satisfaction, and I meant it. (I have a law degree and am married to a lawyer.)

God was faithful and brought about many blessings throughout this difficult and painful time. My son is a better person because of the bullying, and I learned much about God’s faithfulness and grace. Hindsight is 20/20 vision, and I now see how God used what was intended for harm to bring about much good.

Now for the “Yes, Lord” part of the story … The bullying was at its worse in December and January, and then someone vandalized my husband’s truck in July, the night before my son left for the hospital for major back surgery. To this day, my family is convinced these bullies are the ones responsible, but we are unable to prove it. So, you can imagine my reaction when God placed on my heart in September that I needed to apologize to the bullies’ mother for the way I handled the bullying situation.

Let that sink in for a minute. These bullies vandalized our house and vehicle, emotionally tormented my son for several weeks, and did not take much responsibility for any of this, with only a minor consequence applied to one of the bullies after my threat to sue the school if no action was taken. And God told ME to apologize to the mother of these bullies.

As a disciple of Christ, I knew only one answer was possible for me: “Yes, Lord.” I told God that if He would provide the opportunity, I would do so. Within a couple of weeks, I crossed paths with the mother at a soccer game, and I followed through with my promise. I apologized for how I handled the situation and said that while I still don’t know how I should have handled it better, I wish I would have spent more time on my knees before God in prayer before reacting. That was a difficult conversation for me to have (and was well-received by her), but I loved God more than I hated having to do this.

To be continued…

[Graphic: Photograph of Grace’s husband’s vandalized truck. Courtesy Grace Daniels.]

 

Carving out Time for God Every Day

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So, what does Christian discipleship look like? It involves removing yourself from the center of your thoughts by replacing yourself with God as the center of your universe. God becomes your top priority. If you don’t have enough time to get everything done in a day, your time with God is the absolute LAST thing to go, even if that means losing sleep, missing a work deadline, or anything else. Sadly, most Christians have this backward, squeezing in a few minutes with God in the shower or immediately before falling asleep at the end of a busy day. I know because that is how I used to live my life as well.

If you believe that you do not have time to spend with God, then you are not a disciple of Christ. Jesus was a very busy man, ministering to thousands of people at a time, and yet he always carved out one-on-one time with God. If Jesus needed to frequently withdraw from the world and spend alone time with God in prayer, what makes you think you can get by without doing this yourself?

My quiet time with God during the first hour of my day is sacred time. Nothing replaces it, no matter how sick or tired I am and regardless of the inconvenience of finding a place to be alone with God, such as when I travel with a large group. I then build the rest of my day around this priority. Like most people, I have days where I don’t get everything done, and sometimes even important to-dos are left undone longer than they should be. However, the ignored to-do item is NEVER my alone time with God because He is the absolute #1 priority of my life.

Show me how you spend your time, and I’ll tell you what you prioritize. If you do not carve out sacred time for your God daily, you are not a disciple of Christ.

To be continued…

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace praying. Courtesy Bitmoji.]

 

We Cannot Say “No, Lord” and Call Ourselves Disciples of Christ

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Far too many Christians (myself included for many years) believe that saying “No, Lord” is an acceptable response to God’s leading. This confuses free will with discipleship. Yes, we have the option of saying “No” to God through free will, but at the point at which we do this, we cease being Jesus’ disciples. We cannot have it both ways. Either we are voluntarily slaves to Christ, doing the will of God from our hearts, or we are not Jesus’ disciples. We don’t get to enjoy the benefits of discipleship with Christ without first denying ourselves, taking up our crosses, and following Jesus.

Following Christ is not always fun. We live in a culture that is fundamentally self-absorbed, and Christlikeness is all about denying ourselves and putting the needs of others above ourselves. That means we aren’t to blend in to society, and that’s hard for many people to do. May Christians (myself included for many years) want to straddle the fence, keeping one foot in the Church to avoid going to hell while keeping the other foot squarely in the world so that other than warming a pew on Sundays, their lives aren’t very different from the lives of their worldly friends. The Bible says that when we do this, we actually become God’s enemy!

God despises lukewarm Christians, so if you are trying to straddle the fence and live a worldly life peppered with just enough church to avoid going to hell, you are fooling yourself. Jesus did not call people to accept just enough of his sacrifice to avoid going to hell. He called disciples, and he defined discipleship as (1) denying yourself; (2) carrying a cross; and (3) following him. You cannot do this and live a self-absorbed life like the world. You are fooling yourself if you are trying to do this.

To be continued…

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace gagging under the word, “Yuck.” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

 

Saying “Yes, Lord”

In his book Experiencing God: Knowing and Doing the Will of God, Henry Blackaby says that two words never go together: the words “no” and “Lord.” Jesus said that if you love him, you will keep his commandments. Thus, if you truly love God, then your only response to anything He tells you to do will be “Yes, Lord.”

The Bible is filled with commands that we are unable to keep without God’s intervention. For example, it was impossible for me to forgive my childhood abusers because they destroyed me. People often talk about having a broken heart, but mine was more like a shattered heart. It was nothing but a pile of sawdust that was beyond repair or redemption, but God gave me a new heart, one that feels like it was never broken. He did this after I said, “Yes, Lord” to forgiving my enemies, something I could never do on my own power and something, quite frankly, I had no interest in doing.

My sole motivation was love for God. When He asked me whether I loved Him more than I hated my child abusers, I realized that I did. And if I loved Him, then I would obey His commandments. This was the most difficult change I ever made in my life, and it took a long time (over a year of praying for my enemies day after day, week after week, and month after month). God blessed me richly for my obedience by giving me a new, tender heart that not only loves and feels compassion for my childhood abusers, but it also feels love and compassion for sex offenders – the very types of people who originally shattered my heart.

To be continued…

[Graphic: Cover of Experiencing God: Knowing and Doing the Will of God, Revised and Expanded. Courtesy Amazon.]