Reflecting on the Value of the Detour

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I am wrapping up a series based on Tony Evans’ sermon series on detours. I have been on a detour for a couple of years and sensed in my spirit that this season is coming to an end 8 months ago. I don’t know why God revealed this to me back in November while I am still sitting in the pit of this detour, but I have learned a lot that I would like to share.

When I reflect upon my character over the past 8 months as well as the past few years, I see many changes that will likely better equip me to do what God has called me to do. I have learned that God is faithful and quite able to equip me to experience joy, peace, and contentment while in a season of waiting in a pit. This lesson has not come easily. I have learned that I am 100% dependent upon God in every aspect of my life, even the little things. The more I cling to God, the more joy and peace I experience. Conversely, the more I try to power through on my own strength, the more miserable I become.

I have learned how to be sincerely happy and grateful as I help others get out the same pit that I am still stuck in. I could have spent this time mired in bitterness and driven by envy, but God has shaped my character so that my love for others outweighs my temptation to envy them. I do not question whether God loves them more than me. I can truly celebrate with those who celebrate without making their successes about my “failures.” In a society filled with comparisons, developing this characteristic is truly a gift.

In a broader sense, God has taught me how not to make my interactions with other people be about me. God has given me compassion and empathy that I did not have before. When people in the same pit share their own woes, I am no longer tempted to commiserate. Instead, my focus is on what they need. One gift I can give them is my faith – my deep-seated trust that even in the same pit, I know my God is faithful and will deliver me in His timing. My confidence encourages their confidence as we both shift our focus from our pits to our God.

As I see the light at the end of the tunnel approaching, I am viewing this life detour in a different way. This detour was never about punishment and condemnation. This has been God’s way of doing construction on my character so when I reach my destination, I will be the “mighty warrior” equipped to do God’s will in a way that never would have been possible without the detour.

Link to Evans’ Sermon Notes.

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace waving out an airplane window saying, “Ready for takeoff.” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

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Finding Hope in Detours

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When I reached the part of Tony Evans’ sermon series on detours that addressed how to know that we are reaching the end of our detour, I cried through much of it because it explained what was going on my life that I found particularly frustrating. I found myself helping other people out of their pits while still being stuck in my own. The dynamic was similar to Joseph’s plight, where he wanted out of prison, helped someone else get out of prison, and stayed stuck in the same prison for two more years, wondering what the heck??

This got me thinking about something I learned from Tony Evans as well as from Joyce Meyer, which is the concept of giving to others what you want for yourself. For example, if I need financial provision, I need to give money to help others in needs. If I need a friend, I need to give friendship to others who need a friend. Joseph needed to get out of prison, so he planted the seeds for what he needed by helping someone else get out of prison. Without sharing the specific details of the pit I have been trying to get out of for 8 months, I have planted many seeds by helping others get out of the same pit.

I confess it’s frustrating to still be in this pit when I have helped so many other people get out of theirs. The temptation of envy is a shiny object, seeking to lure me into its snare, but I refuse to go there. I thank God for His provision for every single person I have helped get out of the same pit, and I am truly happy and praise God for the deliverance He has brought them. I also continue to help as many people as I can get out of their pits, not out of a selfish desire to sow my own seeds but out of sincere caring for them. I know how painful this pit is for me, so I want to help others get out as I can.

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Link to Evans’ Sermon Notes.

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace sinking in quicksand and yelling, “Help!” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

Why Does God Send Us on Detours?

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I learned a lot through Tony Evans’ sermon series on detours that I am pondering as my detour finally appears to be coming to an end. The obvious question is why God sends us on detours in the first place. If God wants me doing X, then why not make X happen immediately?

I find it interesting that we, in our microwave society, expect that God must do everything now. If He places a vision on our hearts but our lives unfold in a different direction, we assume we misunderstood God, worry that He is punishing us, or try using our own efforts to get to X right away.

However, that’s not the biblical pattern. Abraham waited many years for his promised son. David waited many years for his promised throne. Moses waited many years before leading his people out of slavery. The Bible is filled with the pattern of receiving the vision followed by waiting that seem to bring us farther away from the destiny before it comes to fruition.

Why does God use this pattern? Per Evans, the waiting period is a “detour” in which you are “under construction.” In other words, God has “construction” to do in your character before you will be ready to fulfill the purpose that God has planned for you.

Just as Gideon was no warrior when God’s angel addressed him as “mighty warrior,” I did not have the character traits God needed to fulfill His purpose when he gave me the vision of where He is leading me. Since He placed a vision on my heart, I have been over the river, through the woods, and every other direction you can think of other than in the direction of that vision … or so it appears from the outside. From the inside, however, God has been refining me—chiseling away parts of my character that don’t align with what He has called me to do while building other parts that I will need to serve Him well.

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Link to Evans’ Sermon Notes.

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace shrugging her shoulders and asking, “Why?” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

Joseph’s Detour

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The foundational scripture Evans used to explain the concept of detours was the life of Joseph in the Old Testament. God revealed to Joseph through a dream that he would be elevated above his brothers, so they sold him into slavery. Joseph prospered as a slave but was imprisoned for something he did not do, ironically because he refused to do something wrong. Joseph helped someone get out of prison, which was what he wanted for himself, and hoped that favor would be repaid, but it wasn’t. However, two years later, God moved, and when He moved, HE MOVED! Not only was Joseph released from prison, but he became second in command in Egypt. God used Joseph to save the people from a severe family and reconciled him with is family. Joseph was able to look back on the detours of his life and say to his brothers,

You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” ~ Gen. 50:20

Nothing in Joseph’s life made sense as he was living it. God told him that he would be elevated above his brothers, but then his life got worse and worse: sold into slavery, imprisoned for doing the right thing, left behind as he gave someone else what he himself wanted…This took place over a number of years, and he must have been ready to pull his hair out wondering how God could have promised elevation but instead allowed him to be thrown into deeper and deeper pits. And yet, the Bible records no complaining. While I am sure Joseph had his moments of despair, he chose to be a blessing to others, no matter how deep his pit became.

Evans calls this dynamic a detour … when God tells you the end, but the path to the end is so circuitous that you question whether you could have possibly heard God correctly. I have been on such a detour for a couple of years now, but I sense my detour is finally (blessedly!) coming to an end, which is leading me to ponder this concept of detours to share with you.

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Link to Evans’ Sermon Notes.

[Graphic: Cartoon of Grace with her hand on her hip and an hourglass saying, “I’m Waiting.” Courtesy Bitmoji.]

God’s Detours in our Lives

Tony Evans gave a sermon series on his book, Detours: The Unpredictable Path to Your Destiny, which I found very helpful for my present season of life. To make a long story short, one area of my life has been gradually growing worse for a couple of years. It took a nosedive a year ago and then a second nosedive in November. At that point, I sensed God’s direction that “it’s time to move on.” Believe me, I was beyond ready to move on!

Since then, though, God has opened no doors for me to actually move on. In February, this situation nosedived into another dimension, causing me to question whether I could continue on this path. I was frustrated because I knew God was telling me it was time to move on, and yet He left me in the same situation that grew significantly worse in February. A possible “out” came along around the same time but did not pan out, and I was very confused as to why. Then, God brought me Tony Evans’ Detours sermon series, which helped me understand what God was doing. While I was still neck deep in a bad situation, I was reassured that God was with me, that I had not misunderstood God’s leading, and that God really was working, even though I could not see it.

All I will share in this series is my own personal application of what I learned through Evan’s sermon series. If you are on a divine detour and want to understand what’s going on, I encourage you to read Evans’ book because he does a much better job than I can explaining what God is doing. This can help you not feel abandoned in your current detour and build your trust that God truly is in control, knows what He is doing, and has something wonderful planned for you.

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Link to Evans’ Sermon Notes.

[Graphic: Cover of Detours: The Unpredictable Path to Your Destiny. Courtesy Amazon.]